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Embracing 2026: Stepping Forward as Our Truest Selves

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As we cross the threshold into 2026, many of us are carrying more than just memories from 2025—we are carrying lessons, wounds, victories, fatigue, and growth. The turning of the calendar is not a magic eraser, but it is an invitation. An invitation to pause, reflect, release, and re-imagine who we are becoming.

Releasing the Weight of 2025

For some, 2025 was marked by stress, uncertainty, loss, or constant adjustment. We learned how to push through, hold it together, and survive. While survival is sometimes necessary, it is not meant to be a permanent residence. As we step into 2026, we are allowed to leave behind the weight of what no longer serves us—the expectations, the self-criticism, the constant urgency, and the belief that rest must be earned.

Letting go does not mean forgetting. It means honoring what we endured without allowing it to define us.

From Survivor Self to Authentic Self

Many of us have learned how to function from our survivor self—the version of us shaped by adversity, fear, or the need to stay safe. The survivor self is resilient, resourceful, and protective. It got us through. But the survivor self often lives in hyper-vigilance, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or emotional armor.

Our authentic self, however, is rooted in truth rather than fear. It is the part of us that lives freely, honestly, and intentionally. The authentic self does not abandon boundaries, but it also does not hide behind them. It allows us to be fully present, deeply connected, and aligned with our values.

2026 invites us to ask:

  • Who am I when I am not just surviving?
  • What parts of myself am I ready to reclaim?
  • What would it look like to live from wholeness rather than exhaustion?

Extending Ourselves Grace and Love

So often, we extend compassion, patience, and understanding to others while holding ourselves to impossible standards. We excuse others’ humanity but criticize our own. As we enter this new year, let us commit to offering ourselves the same grace we give so freely.

Grace says:

  • I am allowed to grow at my own pace.
  • I am not defined by my mistakes or my hardest seasons.
  • I deserve rest, joy, and care—not as rewards, but as necessities.

Loving ourselves well is not selfish; it is restorative. When we treat ourselves with kindness, we create space for healing and transformation.

Living the Best Version of Ourselves

Living our best life is not about perfection or comparison—it is about alignment. It is about choosing what nourishes our spirit, supports our mental and emotional well-being, and honors our values. The best version of ourselves is not a future fantasy; it is shaped daily through intentional choices, honest reflection, and courageous boundaries.

In 2026, may we:

  • Choose presence over pressure
  • Choose growth over fear
  • Choose authenticity over approval

Embracing Who We Are Purposed to Be

Each of us carries purpose—not as a destination to reach, but as a way of being. Purpose unfolds when we live in integrity with who we are created to be. It shows up in our relationships, our work, our rest, and the way we show up for ourselves.

As we move into 2026, may we walk forward lighter—released from what was, grounded in who we are, and open to who we are becoming. May this be the year we stop merely surviving and start living fully, boldly, and authentically.

Here’s to a year of healing, clarity, grace, and becoming.
Welcome to 2026.

Legacy, Black History Month, and the Power of Our Ancestors in Tumultuous Times

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February is more than just a month; it’s a moment of remembrance, reflection, and renewal. Black History Month calls us to honor the legacies of those who came before us—trailblazers, revolutionaries, artists, and everyday people who built the foundation on which we now stand. In these uncertain and often turbulent times, their stories remind us of our resilience, our power, and the responsibility we carry to shape the future.

The Weight and Gift of Legacy

Legacy is not just what we leave behind; it is what we live out daily. It is the values, lessons, and love that echo through generations. The sacrifices of our ancestors—those who endured the horrors of slavery, fought for civil rights, and broke barriers in every field—are not distant history. Their courage lives in our determination. Their hope fuels our dreams. Their wisdom guides our choices.

When we recognize that we are the embodiment of their prayers and persistence, we realize that our own lives are part of a much greater story. The decisions we make today—how we love, how we lead, how we fight for justice—become the inheritance of future generations.

Ancestors: The Roots That Keep Us Grounded

Many African traditions emphasize the sacred role of ancestors. They are not just figures in history books; they are present in spirit, offering guidance and strength. Honoring them isn’t just about remembering names and dates—it’s about embodying their lessons. It’s about standing tall, knowing that their struggles paved the way for our opportunities.

In times of crisis, when the world feels unstable, when injustices persist, our ancestors remind us that we are built for this. They survived oppression, exile, and violence—yet they created, resisted, and thrived. Their resilience is ours to claim.

Living in Tumultuous Times

We are living through a period of great upheaval—socially, politically, environmentally. But we have seen turmoil before. We have been through reconstruction, Jim Crow, civil rights battles, and countless fights for dignity and humanity. This moment, like those before it, calls us to act with intention.

  • Educate and Empower – Black history is not just for February. Learning and teaching our history ensures that our stories are not erased. Knowledge is a tool of liberation.
  • Build and Protect Community – Just as our ancestors built networks of support, we must uplift and care for one another. Whether through mutual aid, mentoring, or advocacy, we must be present for our people.
  • Live with Purpose – Every generation has the opportunity to shift the course of history. What will we contribute? How will we fight for justice, for love, for truth?

Carrying the Torch Forward

We honor our ancestors not just by remembering them but by continuing their work. We are the next chapter in a long and powerful story. What we do today—the way we care, the way we resist, the way we create—will become the legacy we leave behind.

This Black History Month, let’s recommit to living lives worthy of those who came before us and inspiring those who will come after. Our legacy is still being written. Let’s make it one of strength, justice, and love.